Real life – dealing with death.

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What do you think awaits us in the life after this one?

Do you believe in ghosts?

Heaven and hell?

Or perhaps you believe in reincarnation.

I mean are they partying in another realm somewhere. Or as Joey from friends says “your worm food”

Personally I do believe in ghosts, I always have however I’d love to think that someone who was a scumbag in this life would come back as a bluebottle.

I mean if you try to get in peoples shit in this life, why not the next?!

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Not many of you will know that I lost both my parents at the age of 21.

It was shit.

There’s no other way I can say it.

It made me angry, to some extent I’m still angry all these years later.

It changed my outlook on life and on the world around me.

Made me bitter and taught me that you can’t rely on people just because they are your family.

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When two people who were so influential on your life get taken away so suddenly you look to other people for support. My family weren’t there for me. But luckily my in-laws and my other half were. I don’t know where’d I’d be today if it wasn’t for those amazing people.

I find that even though it was many years ago, people still have a hard time talking to me about the death of my parents, they never know what to say or even if it’s ok to say anything at all.

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Death is inevitable for all of us. And the ones closest to us. Yet it’s something that i feel is still a taboo subject, even in today’s world.

So if someone you know is dealing with the death of a loved one let them know you care, that when they are ready you’ll be there to talk if they need it.

Until next time.



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